Have you ever missed someone and felt terrible because you think that he/she doesn't miss you?
Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling. You will be sitting around wondering if you meant anything to him/her. Thinking if he/she ever cares about you. Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her. Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing outside. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him/her, missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time you were out together. Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online. When you realize that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, you will start worrying if he/she is okay.
Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes you to loneliness. It teaches you how to cope with being lonely and let you know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. You know that you really care and you indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. You feel as if you are being left alone.
So if you miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss you. Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If you are the one being missed and you know it, let the other party know. If you miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
Well, what are you waiting for then...?
19 comments:
r u writing to remind urself??
but what u wrote is true. missin someone could be sweet. :)
yes...i also missing someone..
have you told him you miss him ? if not, i may help u !! lol
CP I think u go tell him la... she so pai seh and cannot tahan already .. we need to help her ler .. but make sure it's the correct HIM .. keke~!
okok....i call HIM right now...! Do you think I should make the sound like LP ah ?
BO, this is just a general idea, it's definitely not referring to me la, but yes, part of it. Hehe!!
CP, you can save your money to call others. Lol lol..
Missing someone is Sweet and Bitter, is Happy and Torture, all happening at once.
What if you are missing someone who doesnt miss you in return? who is not ready to miss you? or who doesnt say he/she miss you after you told him/her? :)
Does it then means that person doesnt miss you in return? Too much of specualtion, too many interpretation. I hope it is as simple as 1 + 1; Or prehaps I was the one who is making it complicated.
Missing someone is a personal feeling, and before it becomes mutual, one would have to take the journey alone.
anom: wah~! macam reading from a Reader's Digest article onli sia~
Anon.. well written and very true!!
this anon know to write, but she cant manage it well !!!!! lolz
Maybe Mr.cp cannot read that well. :)
I know Mr CP's english so broken, but I know he can read and understand....
perhaps one need to realise that read doesnt mean understanding, same as hear doesnt mean listening .. ^^
anon, dun play play with this CP, he can know what you write. BUT, just you are the one dun just make yourself always in the middle of the circle, its time for you to walk out lor
Whatever.
As in whatever you think you understand. Sadly, you still didnt understand the content of my first comment. ^^
wah...so many reply already ah!, Aleximon, save your energy lah. You din see Im so quite meh..
Exactly, aleximon. like your fren cp said.. Save the energy for better stuffs ^^
CP and Aleximon, Hm.. i'm wondering..!!
Hey CP or maybe Aleximon, are you feeling well today? Lol lol..
K-Bear, I understand what you mean now~!
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